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The Diagnosis isn’t the End
A dementia diagnosis can be devastating, but it doesn’t mean the end of your loved one’s life or memories. While dementia gradually affects memory, reasoning, and daily activities, it’s important to remember that the progression is often slow and varies from person to person. My handsome son and my mom. Dementia encompasses over 100 conditions, including: : Alzheimer's Frontotemporal Dementia Vascular Dementia Parkinson's Lewy Body Dementia Multi-Infarct Dementia Huntington's Disease Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease Alcohol-related Dementia Down Syndrome with Alzheimer's HIV Associated Dementia Childhood Dementia They all impact reasoning, memory & activities of daily life, but there are different symptoms associated with each different disease. Most are a slow (albeit progressive) decline.…
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My Backstory
My earliest memory is being on the phone with my mother, who told me I had a new baby sister. I was so excited! Mom said she would bring the baby home to meet me in time for my 2nd birthday in 3 days. I would grab a diaper, wipes, or burp cloth with extreme speed and accuracy. Mom could count on me to care for this tiny, often crying, sweet baby sister, who was so helpless. I was a secondary caregiver at 2 years old! A short 15 months later, it happened again! My mom was a baby-making machine! She had 4 kids in 5 years!! This time mom…
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15 Ways to Deal with Anger
Anger and agitation can be challenging when caring for someone with dementia. These emotional outbursts often stem from the inability to control emotions due to cognitive decline. Here are 15 strategies to help you manage and reduce anger in dementia patients: 1. Distract and Divert Attention: Redirect their focus away from the source of anger to something calming or enjoyable. 2. Simplify Communication: Speak slowly and provide step-by-step instructions. For example, "I'm turning on the shower. I will get it warm for you. Here's a washcloth with soap in it so you can wash your body." 3. Make Choices, But Offer Alternatives: Select their clothing and meals but provide options…
