Hey Caregivers – Don’t forget about YOU

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We see you.

You show up every day — strong, selfless, and determined to take care of someone you love. But can we be real for a minute? While you're out there doing everything for everyone else, who's looking out for you?

Let’s talk about something we don't say enough: caregiving can take a serious toll on your health — mental, emotional, and physical. And pretending you're a superhero with unlimited energy isn't doing anyone any favors (cape or not).

What the Research Says (Spoiler: It’s Not Great)

According to the American Psychological Association, caregivers are:

  • 26% more likely to go without health insurance

  • 59% more likely to skip doctor visits because of the cost

That's right. We’re so focused on others, we start treating our own health like it’s optional. Newsflash: It’s not.

The Emotional Load is Real

The Family Caregiver Alliance found that caregivers are more likely to experience:

  • Depression and anxiety

  • Guilt, stress, and burnout

  • Feeling overwhelmed, helpless, or just flat-out exhausted

  • Loss of identity and self-worth

Let’s not sugarcoat it — sometimes it feels like you're unraveling at both ends of the rope.

And Physically? That’s a Whole Other Ballgame

Caregivers report increased risk for:

  • Heart disease, diabetes, arthritis

  • Weaker immune systems

  • Slower healing and more infections

  • Higher cancer risks

  • Even a 63% higher mortality rate

(Yes, you read that right. Yikes.)

Caregiver Burnout is a Thing — And It’s Dangerous

Trying to do it all yourself? Classic path to burnout. And here’s the kicker: when you're burned out, the person you're caring for suffers too.

Common burnout symptoms:

  • Fatigue, irritability, mood swings

  • Difficulty sleeping or concentrating

  • Getting sick more often

  • Feeling hopeless or like you're just going through the motions

Even small mistakes — like mixing up meds or rushing care — can happen more easily when you're running on empty.

What You Can Do: Make a Caregiver Action Plan

The best time to make a care plan? Yesterday. The second-best time? Now.

Here's what to include:

  • Rotate caregiving duties with friends, family, or outside help

  • Schedule breaks (yes, actual time off)

  • Share tasks like grocery shopping, meals, cleaning, and pet care

  • Coordinate doctor visits, prescriptions, and bills

  • Keep everyone in the loop so you’re not doing it all alone

What's the GREAT NEWS?

I can help you. I have experience at creating plans tailored to individual situations.

There's no sales pitch, only help and hope. Schedule yours TODAY.

Remember: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Caregiving is a marathon, not a sprint. Build a team, set boundaries, and take care of yourself on purpose.

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