Hey Caregivers – Don’t forget about YOU
We see you.
You show up every day — strong, selfless, and determined to take care of someone you love. But can we be real for a minute? While you're out there doing everything for everyone else, who's looking out for you?
Let’s talk about something we don't say enough: caregiving can take a serious toll on your health — mental, emotional, and physical. And pretending you're a superhero with unlimited energy isn't doing anyone any favors (cape or not).
What the Research Says (Spoiler: It’s Not Great)
According to the American Psychological Association, caregivers are:
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26% more likely to go without health insurance
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59% more likely to skip doctor visits because of the cost
That's right. We’re so focused on others, we start treating our own health like it’s optional. Newsflash: It’s not.
The Emotional Load is Real
The Family Caregiver Alliance found that caregivers are more likely to experience:
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Depression and anxiety
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Guilt, stress, and burnout
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Feeling overwhelmed, helpless, or just flat-out exhausted
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Loss of identity and self-worth
Let’s not sugarcoat it — sometimes it feels like you're unraveling at both ends of the rope.
And Physically? That’s a Whole Other Ballgame
Caregivers report increased risk for:
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Heart disease, diabetes, arthritis
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Weaker immune systems
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Slower healing and more infections
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Higher cancer risks
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Even a 63% higher mortality rate
(Yes, you read that right. Yikes.)
Caregiver Burnout is a Thing — And It’s Dangerous
Trying to do it all yourself? Classic path to burnout. And here’s the kicker: when you're burned out, the person you're caring for suffers too.
Common burnout symptoms:
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Fatigue, irritability, mood swings
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Difficulty sleeping or concentrating
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Getting sick more often
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Feeling hopeless or like you're just going through the motions
Even small mistakes — like mixing up meds or rushing care — can happen more easily when you're running on empty.
What You Can Do: Make a Caregiver Action Plan
The best time to make a care plan? Yesterday. The second-best time? Now.
Here's what to include:
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Rotate caregiving duties with friends, family, or outside help
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Schedule breaks (yes, actual time off)
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Share tasks like grocery shopping, meals, cleaning, and pet care
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Coordinate doctor visits, prescriptions, and bills
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Keep everyone in the loop so you’re not doing it all alone
What's the GREAT NEWS?
I can help you. I have experience at creating plans tailored to individual situations.
There's no sales pitch, only help and hope. Schedule yours TODAY.
Remember: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Caregiving is a marathon, not a sprint. Build a team, set boundaries, and take care of yourself on purpose.
